i need a lot of help: Anorexia

[xxcookxx]

Ok, so im Anorexic. You know when you feel like you have to start to diet and you dont lose wieght, well that was me. i was already underwieght and i wanted to lose just 5 more pound. I dont know when to stop. i stave myself for 1-2 days n then i eat my face bing pung.eat alot n throwit back up. i go to this group n it absoutly doesnt help. i have tried everything but it absolutl doesnt work!i cry over it a lot too. it sucks being me

[XxAnimeEmoGirlxX]

Ok, dude, I know it's hard. I'm in the same sititutaion, but no one in my 'family' cares, so I have to live with it :/. But don't complain about your life "It sucks to be me." Guess what, everyone has problems and you need to learn it and face that fact.

What you should do is:

1. Tell some really close friends who care, and get them to help you.

2. Try another appraoch to it. Go to diffrent kinds of groups and not just one.

3. Tell yourself to make a certain portion of food to eat everyday. Like... Each a sandwhich one day....then the next day make it a sandwhich with a chip or something....if that's to big of a portion then start smaller and work your way up AT YOUR PACE.

4. Last, but neh *shrugs* Tell your mom or whoever you live with that it's not helping/ getting worse and see if you could go to a hospital.

[_empty_distance_]

Originally Posted by XxAnimeEmoGirlxX

Ok, dude, I know it's hard. I'm in the same sititutaion, but no one in my 'family' cares, so I have to live with it :/. But don't complain about your life "It sucks to be me." Guess what, everyone has problems and you need to learn it and face that fact.

What you should do is:

1. Tell some really close friends who care, and get them to help you.

2. Try another appraoch to it. Go to diffrent kinds of groups and not just one.

3. Tell yourself to make a certain portion of food to eat everyday. Like... Each a sandwhich one day....then the next day make it a sandwhich with a chip or something....if that's to big of a portion then start smaller and work your way up AT YOUR PACE.

4. Last, but neh *shrugs* Tell your mom or whoever you live with that it's not helping/ getting worse and see if you could go to a hospital.

i have to agree with you on just about everything you said there, but other than that i can't help much more cuz ive never had an eating disorder before, well i wish both of the best and good luck, (you can do it!! believe in urself)

[XXemo_punk_kittyXX]

the most important part is to belive in yourself , because if you dont then you most likely wont be able to do it, because I know beliveing in myself , has helped me alot with my eating disorder .

[sexy_shazam]

ya tell someone close to u and get them to help support u aswell

also go see a doctor or something it will help u alot.

dont like rush into anything take ur time trying to become non anorexic, even if people start saying oo y are u still anorexic stuff them cause at the end of the day its all u so just take ur time that way youll prevent a relapse.

[xxcookxx]

Originally Posted by XxAnimeEmoGirlxX

Ok, dude, I know it's hard. I'm in the same sititutaion, but no one in my 'family' cares, so I have to live with it :/. But don't complain about your life "It sucks to be me." Guess what, everyone has problems and you need to learn it and face that fact.

What you should do is:

1. Tell some really close friends who care, and get them to help you.

2. Try another appraoch to it. Go to diffrent kinds of groups and not just one.

3. Tell yourself to make a certain portion of food to eat everyday. Like... Each a sandwhich one day....then the next day make it a sandwhich with a chip or something....if that's to big of a portion then start smaller and work your way up AT YOUR PACE.

4. Last, but neh *shrugs* Tell your mom or whoever you live with that it's not helping/ getting worse and see if you could go to a hospital.

I REALLY DONT LIKE WAT U SAID CUZ JUST GOING TO MORE THEN ONE GROUP WONT HELP EIGHTHER. AND UM IT REALLY DOES SUCK TO BE ME TOO. IK OTHER PPL HAVE PROBLEMS, BUT I DONT HAVE A FAMILY AND 1 CLOSE FRIEND THT I LIVE WITH. I CANT TRUST ANYONE ELSES PARENTS OKAY. AND SECOND, SHE HAS ONE TO. IM USEING HERS CUZ I CANT MAKE MY OWN.
OKAY.

[black emo]

i can honestly say i really dont know how 2 help. i dont know nyting bout anorexia. but i can say if u wanna talk im here. im sorry i cant help more.

[XXemo_punk_kittyXX]

I've found that groups didnt really help me , they almost made it worse, but you should tell you friend, or friends that your really close to .

[XxAnimeEmoGirlxX]

Originally Posted by xxcookxx

I REALLY DONT LIKE WAT U SAID CUZ JUST GOING TO MORE THEN ONE GROUP WONT HELP EIGHTHER. AND UM IT REALLY DOES SUCK TO BE ME TOO. IK OTHER PPL HAVE PROBLEMS, BUT I DONT HAVE A FAMILY AND 1 CLOSE FRIEND THT I LIVE WITH. I CANT TRUST ANYONE ELSES PARENTS OKAY. AND SECOND, SHE HAS ONE TO. IM USEING HERS CUZ I CANT MAKE MY OWN.
OKAY.

Boo hoo, Kids are out there starving and dieing everyday. You have a house, you have clothes. They have nothing. Get over it. My dad is dead, my mom is gone. I live with my brother and mother him. My mom doesn't give a shit about me. Everyone here hates me cuz of the way I am. Get over yourself and move on with life. Guess what hun, tons of people have no family, I'm one of them. So stop whining like a little baby and grow up. Srry, but ugh you complain to much and I don't even know you.

My advice...GO TO A DAMN COUNCILER *sp* ugh I can tell you've given up already. Also, try to type right, it's embarrasing*sp*

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Originally Posted by emo punk kitty

I've found that groups didnt really help me , they almost made it worse, but you should tell you friend, or friends that your really close to .

How did it make it worse? o.o

I have my own group: Me myself and I...it seems to stay at the rate I have been at...v.v I'm getting better though. One of the people in the band said it looked like I gained some wieght

[XXemo_punk_kittyXX]

some of the storys that they would tell would act as triggers, which would cause me to relapse